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Women in Church Leadership, part 9
“Women Should Remain Silent”
a study of 1 Corinthians 14:34-35
Preface by
Joseph Tkach
In 1
Corinthians 14:34-35, Paul wrote: “As in all the congregations of the saints,
women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but
must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to inquire about something,
they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to
speak in the church” (vv. 33-35).
If
we take this literally, it would mean that women are not allowed to sing in
church nor respond when the pastor asks for comments or questions from the
audience. Moreover, it would contradict what Paul said in chapter 11, where he
said that women could pray and prophesy in church if they had the
appropriate attire.
Common sense, church custom, and good principles of biblical interpretation all
say that we should not take these verses literally—and almost no one does. Paul
is not making a blanket prohibition that says that women can never speak in
church. Rather, he was addressing his comments to a certain situation, and his
comments are limited in some way. The question is, What are the limits of Paul’s
prohibition? In the following paper, the doctrinal review team examines the
context and looks at the details of these verses.
Joseph
Tkach
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A call to
order
In 1
Corinthians 11, Paul begins to instruct the Corinthian church about their
somewhat disorganized worship services. As we studied in our previous paper, he
says that women should wear a head covering when they pray and prophesy; then he
corrects the Corinthians on the way they had been observing the Lord’s Supper.
In chapter 12, he addresses the proper use of spiritual gifts in the worship
service. He describes a number of gifts, and insists that all gifts are
important to the Body of Christ; the variety of gifts calls for mutual respect
and honor, not vanity or shame.
In chapter
13, he describes love as the best way, and in chapter 14 he makes an extended
contrast between the gift of tongues and the gift of prophesying. Apparently
some people in Corinth were extolling the gift of tongues as a mark of superior
spirituality. Paul did not tell them to stop speaking in tongues, but he did put
some restrictions on how tongues should be used in the worship service:
1)
There should be two or three speakers
(14:27).
2)
They should speak one at a time (v. 27).
3)
There should be an interpretation (v. 27b).
If no one can interpret the tongues, “the speaker should keep quiet in the
church and speak to himself and God” (v. 28). However, this requirement should
not be lifted out of its context to create a complete prohibition on the person
ever speaking, singing or praying.
Paul is
apparently trying to give some organization to what had been a rather chaotic
worship meeting—several people speaking at once, speaking words that no one
could understand.
Paul
recommends the gift of prophecy as a far more helpful gift, but he gives similar
guidelines for those speakers, too:
1)
Only two or three should speak (v. 29). If
someone else has something to say, the first speaker should be quiet.
2)
They should speak one at a time (v. 31).
3)
People should “weigh carefully what is said”
(v. 29; cf. 1 Thess. 5:21).
Paul notes that “the spirits of the prophets
are subject to the control of the prophets” (1 Cor. 14:32). That is, the
speakers are able to stop; they cannot use “God made me do it” as an excuse for
adding to the commotion.
When God gives a gift, he also gives the person the responsibility to make
decisions to use that gift in an appropriate way. Simply having the gift is not
an excuse to use it whenever and wherever the person wants to. Paul explains his
reason: “For God is not a God of disorder but of peace” (v. 33).
Paul
then tells the women to be quiet, and to ask their questions at home: “As in all
the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches.
They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If
they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at
home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church” (vv. 33-35).
Let’s examine
some of the details in these verses.
Observations
1) The first thing we notice is
that women are not the only people Paul tells to be “silent.” He uses the same
word in verses 28 and 30 to tell tongue-speakers and prophets to be silent when
others speak. In both of those verses, he is calling for a temporary silence,
not a complete and permanent prohibition.
2) The word for “speak” (laleō)
does not necessarily mean a formal role in the pulpit—it is a general word that
can also be translated “talk.” Paul used a general word to say that women should
not talk, and we have to make an interpretive choice: Was he prohibiting formal
speaking roles, or talk in the audience,
or something else?
3) Paul says that instead of
speaking, women should be in submission. This implies that the Corinthian women
were speaking in an insubordinate way. The fact that Paul said in chapter 11
that women could pray and prophesy, and in chapter 14 that two or three people
could prophesy in a worship service, shows that women are allowed to have a slot
in the speaking schedule. It is not insubordinate for them to speak prophecies;
it is therefore likely that Paul is prohibiting some less-formal speaking, such
as chatter or comments from the audience.
4)
Paul says that “the Law” requires submission. There are several options for what
kind of submission is meant:
a)
submission of all women to all men. However,
as we saw in previous studies, the Old Testament does not require all women to
submit to all men, nor does it require them to be silent. Nevertheless, some
scholars believe that Paul is alluding to a “principle” derived from Genesis.
b)
submission of wives to their
husbands.
Although this command is not explicitly found in the Old Testament, the presence
of the command in the New Testament
suggests that it was based on Old Testament principles. Further, v. 35 indicates
that Paul may have been dealing with a husband-wife problem. However, if Paul is
alluding to a rule about family relationships, it would not necessarily apply to
authority in the church.
c)
submission to a Roman law that restricted
women’s roles in pagan worship.
Although Paul normally means the Mosaic law when he uses the word nomos,
it is possible that he meant civil law in this verse; the Corinthians would know
by context which law he meant.
d)
submission to themselves. Just as Paul told
the prophets to control themselves (v. 32), he uses the same Greek word in v. 34
to say that women should be in submission; the proximity of these two uses
suggests that Paul means for women to control themselves. The New American
Standard Bible translates v. 34b in this way: “let them subject themselves, just
as the Law says.”
In this case the “law” could be either Roman law or general biblical principles
of decency and order.
5) Paul addresses the problem by
saying, “If they want to inquire about something…” This implies that the problem
in Corinth concerning the asking of questions with a desire to learn
something.
Blomberg suggests, “Perhaps the largely uneducated women of that day were
interrupting proceedings with irrelevant questions that would be better dealt
with in their homes.”
Belleville says, “Their fault was not in the asking per se but in the
inappropriate setting for their questions.”
6) Paul says that the women “should
ask their own husbands at home.”
This may imply that the problems were caused primarily by women who were married
to Christian men.
Grudem is probably right in suggesting that Paul “assumes that the Corinthians
can make appropriate applications for single women [or those married to pagans],
who would no doubt know some men they could talk to after the service.”
Paul is giving “husbands at home” as an illustration, not as a limitation on who
can answer and where they must be. For example, it would be permissible to ask
questions while walking home, or of other women, or of other men.
Paul’s main point is, Don’t talk in church, not even to ask questions.
7) Paul says that it is
“disgraceful” for women to talk in church. This word appeals to the Corinthians’
own sense of social propriety. He is saying that church custom (v. 33b), the law
(v. 34), and social expectations (v. 35) all prohibit women from talking in
church.
The questions themselves are not wrong, for they can be asked at home, but it is
disorderly to ask them in the worship service.
8) It is not clear whether “as in
all the congregations of the saints” (v. 33b) introduces this topic, or
concludes the previous one. Linda Belleville notes that in the other places Paul
appeals to the practice of other churches, it is at the end of the
discussion (1 Cor. 4:17; 7:17; 11:16), and it is redundant to have “in the
churches” both in the introductory clause and at the end of the same sentence.
As she notes, “‘Let the women…’ is a typical Pauline start to a new paragraph.”
However, this does not seem to affect the interpretation of the verses. Either
way, it seems that other churches were already doing what Paul wanted the
Corinthians to do.
Church,
law, and society
Paul has
already indicated that women can pray and prophesy in church (chapter 11), and a
worship service includes two or three people prophesying in turn (14:29-32).
This means that it is permissible for women to have formal speaking roles in the
church. Paul was apparently forbidding some other type of speech. Just as he did
not allow tongue-speakers or prophets to speak out of turn, he did not want
women to speak out of turn, saying things in such a way that they were breaking
social customs about what is appropriate.
Paul appealed
to church custom, the law, and cultural expectations; we will consider how each
of these is relevant to the problem that Paul is dealing with.
1) We know
very little about how first-century churches functioned, except for what the New
Testament tells us—and the picture is one of variety. Some churches were led by
apostles and elders; others by prophets and teachers; some by overseers or
elders or deacons. Although we know the names of a number of influential men and
women, we can associate those names with specific titles in only a few cases. We
know even less about how a typical worship service was conducted; 1 Cor. 14 is
the primary evidence.
2) We have surveyed the Old
Testament, and find no prohibition on women speaking in public.
Scripture provides examples of women who had leadership roles in civil
government, in publicly praising God, and in giving authoritative answers about
spiritual matters to male civil leaders (e.g., Deborah, Miriam, and Huldah).
Scripture does not require all women to submit to all men. The problem in
Corinth probably involved either a) wives speaking against or dishonoring their
husbands,
or b) more generally, women acting disorderly and for that reason considered
“not in submission.” The “law” that Paul mentions may be a civil law, or a New
Testament rule.
3) In Greco-Roman society, women
were given authority in the household, but rarely had opportunity for public
speaking. Craig Keener notes a typical expectation: “Plutarch goes on to explain
that a woman’s talk should also be kept private within the home…she ‘ought to do
her talking either to her husband or through her husband.’”
The average woman was less educated and had little experience in public
assemblies; this may have contributed to the problem in Corinth.
It is sometimes suggested that
synagogues had separate seating for men and women, and that the early church
continued this custom—hence when women asked questions of the men, it was
necessary to shout across a barrier, and that is why Paul prohibited such
questions in church. Although the hypothesis is attractive because it would
provide a motive for Paul’s directives, there is little proof for
gender-separated seating for first-century synagogues.
Weighing
the prophecies
Several scholars have argued that
Paul is saying that women should not be involved in the “weighing” of prophetic
messages (v. 29)—only men may determine whether a message is in accordance with
sound doctrine.
In this view, men and women may prophesy, but only men may comment on the
validity of the prophecies, because only men have that authority. This
interpretation has the advantage of keeping vv. 34-35 on the same subject as the
rest of the chapter: the orderly use of spiritual gifts.
In keeping with this view, they say that women may speak in church but (based
largely on 1 Tim 2:12) may not have authority.
This interpretation has become almost unanimous among traditionalist scholars.
They argue that prophecy (an unplanned comment) is not as authoritative as
teaching (an explanation of Scripture); women can speak prophecies but should
not have “ecclesiastical authority” in which they have the responsibility to
teach or judge in an official way what men say.
Several
points may be noted against this view:
1) When Paul says that “the others”
should weigh what is said (v. 29), he may mean the entire congregation or the
other prophets—either of which would have included females. Keener suggests that
the “others” who weigh (diakrinō) the prophecies would be people with the
gift of discernment (diakrisis) (12:10), but he notes that nothing
suggests that only males are given this gift.
2) When Paul wrote that they should
“weigh carefully what is said,” it is by no means clear that he is advocating a
formal discussion and pronouncement by leaders of the church. Rather, his
meaning might more simply be that each person should think about whether
the saying is true, much as people today might during sermons.
Verses 34-35 are hardly an adequate explanation of “how to proceed with ‘let the
others weigh what is said.’”
3) There is no evidence that “all
the congregations of the saints” had any procedure for evaluating prophecies—or
that this was done in any other church. None of the early interpreters
suggested that vv. 34-35 are guidelines for evaluating prophecy.
4)
Paul nowhere suggests that the weighing of prophecies, or discerning of spirits,
is more authoritative than prophecy. Rather, throughout 1 Cor. 14 he extols
prophecy as the most useful gift.
5) These scholars have reversed the
natural meaning of v. 35, which suggests that the women want to learn
something by asking questions. In contrast, these scholars say that the problem
is that the women were expressing a judgment. It would be of dubious value for a
woman with the gift of discernment to withhold her reservations about the
message until she got home, where she would share her thoughts with her husband,
who might not have the gift of discernment.
6) It seems that worship services
in Corinth were chaotic; they probably did not have a time designated for
evaluating prophetic messages, so it is doubtful that Paul is addressing
problems that the Corinthians already had with this evaluation time—nor is there
evidence that Paul is anticipating a hypothetical objection. Verses 34-35
indicate that the problem concerned comments and questions that the women were
making, perhaps to everyone at once, or to specific men.
7)
In the Grudem-Hurley view, it would not be insubordinate for a woman to ask
questions or make comments about the prophecy given by a woman. But Paul
does not address such a possibility.
8)
Paul’s call for women to be quiet comes five verses after he says that
prophecies should be evaluated, and it uses a different verb. Paul does nothing
to connect v. 34 with v. 29. Verses 34-35 may not be on the topic of spiritual
gifts, but they are about order in the worship service, and it is not
unreasonable for Paul to include these verses in this chapter, and then conclude
his discussion of spiritual gifts in v. 36.
It is
reasonable to suggest that Paul is prohibiting the same kind of speech that he
prohibits for tongues-speakers and prophets: out-of-turn speaking. While someone
has the podium, the others should be quiet, not making loud comments, not
calling out questions (no matter how well intentioned),
and not having their own conversations, for any of those would be disgraceful in
the eyes of the public, contrary to what God wants, and contrary to the way that
other congregations functioned.
Ben
Witherington suggests the following possibility: “It is very believable that
these women assumed that Christian prophets or prophetesses functioned much like
the oracle at Delphi, who only prophesied in response to questions, including
questions about purely personal matters. Paul argues that Christian prophecy is
different: Prophets and prophetesses speak in response to the prompting of the
Holy Spirit, without any human priming of the pump. Paul then limits such
questions to another location, namely home. He may imply that the husband or man
who was to be asked was either a prophet or at least able to answer such
questions at a more appropriate time.”
Noisy
women
We believe
that the “noisy meeting” theory makes sense of the biblical data: Women were
disturbing the meeting in some way.
However, Hurley criticizes this view, and we will respond to his objections:
1) “There is
no indication elsewhere in the letter that the women in particular were unruly.”
We believe that this objection is not valid. An analysis of chapter 11 shows
that women were the primary problem; Paul gives fewer supporting arguments for
the way that men should appear, suggesting that he believes there is a greater
need to correct the way women pray and prophesy.
2) “Paul does
confront unruly situations in the letter (11:33-34; 14:27,29,31). He meets them
by establishing order rather than by silencing the unruly completely.” This is
true, but it says nothing against the noisy meeting theory. No one believes that
Paul silenced women completely.
The silence he commanded for women was a temporary silence, just as it was for
prophets and tongues-speakers; the goal of all these commands was an orderly
worship service.
3) “The rule
which Paul sets out is one which he says applies in all his churches (14:33b).
It seems unlikely that the problem of noisy women had arisen in all of them.”
However, Paul does not say that a rule had to be given in all the
churches—it is enough that the churches were already doing what theology and
culture said was proper. No matter how the problem is defined, it seems unlikely
that the same problem had arisen in all the churches—if it had been that common,
Paul would have given the Corinthians some guidance on it when he established
the church in Corinth, and on this matter he does not allude to any prior
teaching.
Most churches were already orderly.
4) “It seems
unlike Paul to silence all women because some are noisy or disruptive. His
actual handling of other disorderly people provides concrete grounds for arguing
against wholesale action when only some individuals are in fact violators.” This
objection is groundless. Paul sometimes gives commands to an entire group even
when it is unlikely that every member of the group had a problem:
In 1 Tim.
5:11, he writes as if all younger widows are unable to control their
desires to be married; in Titus 1:12 he writes as if everyone on Crete is a lazy
glutton. In 1 Tim. 2:8, he instructs men to pray “without anger or
disputing.” Apparently the problem about prayer in Ephesus was caused only by
men, and probably only by some of them, so Paul gave instructions only for the
men; in the same way, the problem with talking in Corinth happened to be caused
by women. Paul was writing to specific churches, dealing with specific
situations, not trying to write manuals for all churches in all times. Paul
sometimes wrote principles that are of universal validity, but other
instructions are an application of timeless truth to a specific situation.
Even in
Hurley’s interpretation, Paul was too sweeping in his prohibition—he forbids all
questions because some of them might not be submissive. However, Paul’s
command is quite reasonable if we understand Paul to be addressing a general
commotion: People should not disrupt the service. Paul assumed that the
Corinthians could figure out, just as we do today, that whispering is
permissible, and that a woman can ask the pastor, not just her own husband. It
is not disgraceful for women to pray and prophesy in church, but it is
disgraceful for them (or anyone else) to cause a commotion, and that is Paul’s
main concern.
Conclusion
Although we cannot answer all
questions about the specific situation Paul was addressing in Corinth, we do
conclude that he was addressing a specific situation rather than making a
general prohibition on women speaking in church. His intent was to prohibit
disruptive and disrespectful questions and comments that were part of the
chaotic Corinthian meetings—and in Corinth, these particular practices were
coming from the women. Just as he told the disorderly tongues-speakers and
prophets to control themselves because God is not a God of disorder, he also
told the women to control themselves because the law teaches self-control. If
they want to learn something, they can ask questions somewhere else.
Only one
person should speak at a time. Everyone else, whether male or female, should be
quiet, for it is disgraceful for people in the audience to be talking while
someone else is speaking to the group. Just as Paul’s call for tongues-speakers
or prophets to be silent should not be turned into a demand that they never say
anything at all, so also his call for women to be quiet should not be turned
into a demand that they never give messages of spiritual value in church. That
is something that Paul specifically allows in chapter 11.
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