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Playing as a Team
By Kara Eckmann Powell
As long as I can remember I’ve loved
football. When I was 12 years old, my brother, two neighbor kids, and I formed
"AFAS," short for "Alley Football All-Stars." We had plays
we had practiced, we had cheers we had worked out, and when it came to game
time, we scored touchdown after touchdown against the other kids in the
neighborhood. That is, until Mom called us in for dinner.
But even when no other teammates were
around, I still loved to play. I’d hike the ball to myself, take a few steps
back, throw the football high into the air, try to catch it, and then run as
fast as I could for the crack in the sidewalk that marked the end zone, dodging
imaginary defenders. I didn’t even have to have a real ball. I was a one-woman
team. And I played with gusto.
As I scan the current youth ministry
horizon, I don’t think I’m alone in pretending to be a one-person team. Far
too many youth workers I know do it every week. They are dedicated men and
women, rookies and veterans, church and parachurch workers, working diligently
to make sure their youth group is welcoming, encouraging, and inspiring. Some
are very good at it, but they are often tired individual players, on the verge
of injury and near defeat.
My aim is to identify and explore the
metaphor of a youth group community as a team. To maintain a balance between
sociology, theology, and practical ministry, I will use a three-step methodology
that raises critical investigative questions, engages in theological reflection,
and suggests a renewed paradigm.
Fundamental to this investigation of youth
group community is the belief in "theory-laden practices." According
to Don Browning, widely recognized in the field of practical theology, a theory-laden
practice is an act or behavior that emerges from a principle or set of
principles, however subconsciously these principles may be held.1
Most and, quite possibly, all practices reflect beliefs and theories, and most,
if not all, theories overflow into practices.2
The Critical Question
Why do you think your students are coming
to your youth group? If you answer that they walk in and decide to stay because
of the relationships and friendships they’ve developed in your youth group,
research suggests you are largely correct. In a 1998 random national telephone
survey of 600 teenagers, 70 percent responded positively when asked if they
attended a church youth group weekly or even occasionally. The second most
important reason these students gave for their attendance was
"relationships" or "friendships."3 These are good
reasons for attending a church youth group, but they could just as likely be
given to explain attendance at a soccer practice or student government meeting,
or any other of a wide range of student gatherings. While the nature of
adolescent intellectual and socio-emotional development leads one to expect a
common set of reasons for students’ attendance at any club or meeting, I would
also hope that the encounter with God at a youth group would be substantively
different from any other meeting. Furthermore, it is unclear if the reasons
students come to a youth group match the biblical picture of why they
should come. Thus it may be helpful to ask: What are some purposes for a youth
group meeting that may be missing from students’ current understanding of
their youth group involvement?
The Role of the Youth Pastor
The multiple vocational roles associated
with the pastorate have been widely and repeatedly documented.4 An
empirical survey examining the more narrow category of the youth pastor reveals
eleven vocational roles, including that of administrator, educator/enabler,
recreator/activities director, counselor, and pastoral worship leader.5
In the midst of the multiple roles expected and sometimes demanded of youth
workers, it’s possible that some roles are more important and maybe more
biblically supported than others. Thus the critical question becomes: What is
the purpose and role of adult leaders in a youth group community?
The Role of the Student Leader
Many youth ministries describe their
attendees as advancing through a sort of progression. While expressed in various
diagrammatic models – ranging from a bullseye to a pyramid to a funnel – the
progression remains fairly constant: from casual attendees, to more committed
attendees, to influencers in the ministry. The message that is often implicitly,
or even explicitly, communicated in these diagrams and practices is that there
are two different kinds of students: "guests" and "hosts."
What is often assumed is that the guests are the less mature and skilled who receive
ministry; in contrast, the hosts are the more mature and skilled influencers who
give ministry. Often the latter are called "student leaders" or
"student ministers."6
While there is almost certainly a
continuum of spiritual, psychological, and socio-emotional maturity among
adolescents, the underlying theory seems to be that some students are willing,
or possibly even able, to minister and others are not. Thus an important
question is: What is the purpose and role of a student leader, and how is that
different than the rest of the students?
Theological Reflections
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The most stunning change for adolescents
today is their aloneness. The adolescents of the nineties [were] more
isolated and more unsupervised than other generations. It used to be that
kids sneaked time away from adults.... Today, Mom is at work. Neighbors
are often strangers. Relatives live in distant places. This changes
everything.
Patricia Hersch
A Tribe Apart
(Columbine, 1998) |
While keeping in mind the backdrop of the
whole of Scripture, I intentionally focus on the Pauline epistles for two
reasons: First, Paul, while being a theologian, maintained a strong sociological
thrust by paying attention to the social attitudes and structures of his day,
even adopting them at times.7 Second, far from being cloistered in
isolated theological reflection,
Paul was actively engaged in understanding
and responding to the Jewish, Greek, and Roman cultures that blanketed the
Mediterranean region. Following the practical methodology explained earlier in
this article, Paul allowed these cultural issues, as well as the problems and
questions of specific communities to direct his creative energy and the topics
of his letters.8
What are some purposes for a youth group
meeting that may be missing from students’ current
understanding of their youth group involvement?
The nature of the church community can be
partially understood from Paul’s use of the term ekklesia.9
Used over 100 times in the New Testament, 60 of these by Paul, ekklesia, while
commonly translated as "church" in Scripture, is generally defined in
the Greek language as "assembly."10 Most often these
assemblies were held in private homes.11 Not once does Paul employ
the term to describe a building, for church buildings did not exist until the
third century. Rather, he consistently uses it to describe the gathered
believers.
For today’s youth group, a baffling
element in Paul’s description of the purpose of this assembly is not so much
what he teaches, but what he does not teach. Paul does not label the primary
purpose of the gathered community as teaching or learning. Neither does he
describe it as worship.12 Rather, for Paul, worship is a consuming
lifestyle of obedience that can be experienced both corporately and individually
at any time and in any location.13 Furthermore, Paul never defines
the assembly’s mission as evangelism and/or social action. Although important
to his theology, dispersing the gospel and serving others can also occur outside
of the gathered church.14 Of course, teaching, worship, evangelism,
and social action can and do happen when a community gathers, but they are
either precursors of consequences of a greater purpose – the strengthening of
the church.15
What is the purpose and role of adult
leaders in a youth group community?
Because of the transformative power
residing in the spiritual gifts of community members, ministry in the community
should be by the community and to the community. In Ephesians 4, as Paul leads
up to his description of community ministry and spiritual maturity, he gives a
blueprint to help adult leaders build a serving community. In Ephesians 4:11,
Paul describes the apostles, prophets, evangelists, and pastor/teachers as those
who "prepare God’s people for works of service." Note that the
apostles, prophets, evangelists, and pastors/teachers do not do the works of
service. themselves. They support others as they do they do the work of the
ministry.
What is the purpose and role of a student
leader, and how is that different than the rest of the
students?
Although all members are gifted, it is
almost inevitable that some members become more visible within the community,
either because of their gifts or because of their personalities. However, the
uniqueness of students with these gifts is in the visibility and scope of their
gifts, not in the fact that they possess gifts. It is theologically incorrect to
treat and even label only a portion of Christian students in a youth group as
"ministers." Every follower of Jesus Christ is a minister.
A Renewed Paradigm
Many youth workers have discovered at
least some of these conclusions in books and seminars, or in their own study of
Scripture – and maybe even taught them in their own classrooms or youth
meetings. Despite this, youth groups that let theories permeate their actual
practices seem to be the exception, not the rule. It may be that these theories
have not been translated into concrete behaviors because youth workers find it
difficult to break through the dominant stereotype of the strong and gifted
leader who remains the driving force of his or her youth group. Even if he or
she believes that the purpose of the youth group meeting is to strengthen the
youth (and, ultimately, the larger adult) community, that the role of adult
leaders should be one of preparing students for ministry, and that every student
is gifted for ministry in some fashion, youth workers may have difficulty
finding models of the application of these theories. Without such examples, it
is difficult to apply these theories in actual practice.
Whatever the obstacle, the final step is
to map out a renewed paradigm for youth group community that I call a
"mutually ministering community." In order to make this model
understandable in today’s context, I will use the image of the football team.
In order to make it transferable, I will briefly highlight both guiding
principles and concrete practices that can potentially be copied or adapted to
fit youth groups in a variety of settings.
Keep in focus what you want to have
accomplished when the game ends.
All football team players and coaches know
exactly what they want to have accomplished when the whistle blows at the end of
the game. They want to have scored more points than the other team. Their
ultimate mission could not be more clear.
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The mission for every youth group is
equally clear: to see lives changed by Christ in order to change the
world. |
In alliance with Paul’s doctrine, the
mission for every youth group is equally clear: to see lives changed by Christ
in order to change the world. The mission of a youth group is not to grow
bigger, to have fun, or to welcome others, although youth workers (and sometimes
students) desire these. The primary purpose for gathering is so people will walk
out a little – or a lot – different than when they walked in.
Youth workers who recognize this must take
advantage of the variety of opportunities they have to share it as they stand in
front of students in their youth groups, meet with parents, and share proposals
with the church board. This will make not only the youth worker and the youth
group, but also the church and its leadership, more likely to look beyond the
more superficial gauges of youth group attendance, budget, and staff size to the
ultimate standard for evaluation: life transformation.
Only do what helps you win the game.
No football team would run drills and
execute plays that weren’t designed to help them reach their end goal of
winning the game. If passing the ball isn’t working, a wise team adjusts and
runs with it instead.
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When certain elements of a youth
group aren’t bringing about life transformation, they should probably be
eliminated, at least temporarily. |
When certain elements of a youth group
aren’t bringing about life transformation, they should probably be eliminated,
at least temporarily. Whether it’s because what used to be provocative has
been so often repeated it is now mundane, or because this year’s seniors aren’t
like last year’s, even previously effective practices of a youth group can
become impotent.
However, a wise youth worker recognizes
the subtle but surprising influence that some youth group elements have in
forming students’ – especially young adolescents’ – image of God. For
instance, the crowd-breaker you play will probably teach more about the wild
adventure of following God than your well-planned talk. The greeting students
receive when they step into the youth group may say more about God’s love than
memorizing 1 Corinthians 13.16
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The greeting students receive when
they step into the youth group may say more about God’s love than
memorizing 1 Corinthians 13. |
Eliminate the stands.
Like many youth groups, a football game is
comprised of a few players on the field who desperately need rest and a crowd of
people in the stands who desperately need exercise.
Instead of viewing themselves, their adult
leaders, and at some level the entire adult congregation, as a hard-working team
playing in front of the rest of the spectating students, youth workers in a
mutually ministering community "eliminate the stands" and set up a
series of adjacent practice fields instead. In other words, they do everything
they can to convert guests into hosts, and spectators into players. It might
mean they change their seating arrangement so that students are seated eye to
eye instead of shoulder to shoulder. Or it might mean that they change their
terminology, referring to all of their students as ministers. Perhaps if they’re
involved in a larger youth group, they might choose to model their ministry
after the early church and regularly divide into smaller groups that allow for
more interaction and discussion. The overriding goal shifts from entertainment
to active participation.
Remember that lots of seasoned coaches
are needed
Although every football team has a head
coach, no head coach can supervise all the players, nor can he develop and
maintain expertise in all positions. As a result, most teams have additional
specialized coaches to give focused attention to the defense, the offense, and
the special teams.
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All youth pastors, regardless of the
size of their church or ministry, can and should be expected to recruit
other adults to help them in their coaching. |
No youth pastor can or should be expected
to develop and maintain mastery in all the spiritual gifts. It is a theological
and anthropological impossibility. But all youth pastors, regardless of the size
of their church or ministry, can and should be expected to recruit other adults
to help them in their coaching, especially in their weaker areas. An insightful
youth pastor who excels in evangelism will seek out help in areas of pasturing
and teaching to ensure ongoing spiritual formation. Similarly, a youth minister
who has the gift of teaching should intentionally pursue fellow coaches who have
gifts of service and giving in order to make sure students experience God not
only in their heads, but with their hands. Some of these fellow coaches may be
"long distance mentors" who inspire and guide through E-mail, phone
calls, or letters.
Figure out the best position for each
player
A good coach never assumes that the
positions the players currently occupy are optimal. Instead, he or she
constantly assesses, experiments, substitutes, and improvises with the players,
helping them discover their ideal role on the team.
In a youth group, the youth minister,
adult leadership team, small-group leaders, students, student leaders, and
students’ parents all need help in deciphering their ministry gifts and
positions. Three common methods of helping people identify their gifts are
personal reflection, spiritual-gift inventories, and input from others. It is
best to use a combination of all three methods because personal reflection can
be distorted, spiritual-gift inventories can be impersonal, and input from
others can be biased.
When the ball gets fumbled, all grab for
it.
While a football team will only be
successful if the center does his job and hikes the ball to the quarterback, who
in turn does what he is supposed to and throws the ball to the wide receiver,
who does what is intended and catches the ball – when the ball is fumbled,
everything changes. The center, quarterback, wide receiver, and linemen alike
all scramble to grab that ball.
Similarly, as youth workers help their
students understand and move out in their spiritual gifting, they must be on
guard against lopsided spirituality. Most (potentially all) of the spiritual
gifts are also practices of discipline and obedience that are universally
expected of every believer. While believers excel in their specific areas of
gifting, all should be able to "play the positions" of showing mercy,
giving, serving, sharing their faith, teaching, praying, having faith, and
exhorting others. That way, when something unexpected happens, the body remains
balanced and productive.
It seems appropriate when referring to
football to quote the most winning NFL coach of all time, Vince Lombardi.17
According to Lombardi, "Any man’s finest hour – his greatest
fulfillment to all he holds dear – is that moment when he has worked his heart
out in a good cause, and he’s exhausted on the field of battle."18
What Lombardi realized is that playing a game, whether it be professional
football or youth ministry, can be simultaneously draining and exhilarating.
What he missed is that a person’s finest hour is not when he or she has worked
his or her heart out for a good cause, but when that person has been part of a
team that has the best cause –an eternal cause.
ENDNOTES
- Don S. Browning, A Fundamental
Practical Theology (Fortress, 1991), 6.
- Because of the lack of research on youth
ministry, it is difficult to ascertain the exact principles that drive some of
the behaviors of youth groups. However, I suggest some theories from recent
research and from my own observations.
- George Barna, 1998.
- George Barna, Today’s Pastors (Regal
Books, 1993), 130; Samuel W. Blizzard, "The Minister’s Dilemma," Christian
Century (April 25, 1956), 508-510.
- Martha Jean Woody Minardi, "The
Role(s) of the Minister of Youth" (Ed.D. dissertation, Southern Baptist
Seminary, 1987), 67-68.
- Joe Brown, "Do You Believe Your
Students Have Spiritual Gifts? Are You Sure?" (Talbot School of Theology,
July 31, 1998), 2.
- 1 Cor. 9:19-23.
- Robert Banks, Paul’s Idea of
Community (Hendrickson, 1994), 4-6).
- While some might assume that Paul’s use
of the term koinonia, or "fellowship," is equally important,
Paul more often uses it to refer to fellowship with Christ.
- Banks, 1994, 27; Gerhard Kittel, Theological
Dictionary of the New Testament, Vol. III (Eerdmans, 1965), 503.
- Acts 2:46; Acts 12:12; Rom. 16:3-5; Col.
4:15; Philem. 2.
- Maurice Goguel’s claim that the church
is assembled for worship seems to be a flawed exegesis of the passage reports
Maurice Goguel in The Primitive Church (Allen and Unwin, 1964), 52.
[sic]
- Rom. 12:1-2.
- Banks, 1994, 89.
- 1 Cor. 14:12-26; Eph. 4:11-13.
- Kara Eckmann Powell, "What Lurks
Behind Those Fish, Toilet Paper, and Pantyhose Games?" Youthworker
Journal, XVI, 1 (Sept./Oct. 1999), 21.
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Lombardi’s career coaching record was
105-35-6.
- Web site for South End Zone, Packers
Coaches, Lombardi, Quotes.
When this was published in 2000,
KARA
ECKMANN POWELL was assistant professor of Christian education and youth ministry at
Azusa Pacific University, and served as the assistant Junior High pastor
at Lake Avenue Church in Pasadena, California. Since then, she received a Ph.D.
at Fuller Theological Seminary and in 2008 is an assistant professor of youth
and family ministry at Fuller, and the executive director of Center for Youth
and Family Ministry. www.cyfm.net
Originally published in Theology, News
and Notes, June 2000, pp. 17-20. Copyright 2000 Fuller Theological Seminary.
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